Down through the ages have been reports of spirits who attach themselves to humans during sleep and drain them through sexual contact. Succubus are those supposedly of the female gender who attack males and Incubus are those supposedly of the male gender who attack females. Some supposedly are also attracted to those of the same sex and lore has it that some are able to switch gender. Now Lilith is supposedly in charge of Incubus and Succubus, so she would be the deity whom I would contact in such a situation. And in case you are wondering if I have ever known someone who had such a situation, the answer is yes.
In my book Tough Magic for Rough Times I gave a spell at the very end of the book to cleanse a home or business of disruptive entities and told the basic story behind said spell. I didn't go into depth but the spirits were Incubus and Succubus. A quick readers digest version is this: My friend Salt had a friend who owned a few businesses. She had hired a young man and allowed him to stay in an apartment over the businesses. While he was there (And it was only a month or so) weird things begin to occur. Salt's friend was having nocturnal visits from an Incubus, and other workers and customers were having similar experiences. Before the young man took off, he told the Lady he was into Incubus and Succubus. Yep, he had somehow acquired a following of them and didn't care who knew what he was up too. So he ended up quitting and moving on. But his little friends, or some of them decided to stay. And the weird stuff kept up. Salt called me and asked if I could help. I told him to have his friend call me, and she did. After talking to her a few times I had a good idea on what was going on. So I told her I would come up with a ritual to get rid of her unwelcome guests, and that I would send it and the list of ingredients and supplies needed to take care of the situation. Plus I told her she would have to do her home, the apartment he stayed in and all of the businesses, plus do a cleansing on herself. Salt said he would help her do it and then do a cleansing on himself afterwards. The ritual and supplies can be used for any type of spirit. It borders on an exorcism, but it isn't. After doing the ritual and cleansing, the Lady did not have any more issues with said entities or spirits. She called me about a month after they had done it and said she had nothing else occur and that she noticed that she felt better than she had in years in fact.
What you have to do is cleanse everything, including yourself and set up protective barriers to keep out your unwelcome guests. You have to invite in good and protective spirits and entities. This is the part many folks forget. They generally do a cleansing and think they have gotten rid of the problem, and they have, but only temporarily. This is why you hear stories of folks saging a place and a week later the problem is back. The correct way is banish, cleanse, invite in positive energy and beings, set up protection and deflection. You can use crystals and other stones, plants or other magical items to help keep up the energy. And once a month or after a stressful incident do a mini cleansing. Add a house blessing which invites in the positive energies also every few months. And once a month do a magical cleansing bath on yourself. Something as simple as Epsom Salts and lemon juice with a pinch of hyssop with help keep you free of nasty psychic gunk. Burn Sandalwood, Frankincense, Myrrh or Dragons Blood incense once a week and waft it through your home will help keep positive energy flowing in. Wear a pentacle or other protective jewelry. Hang windchimes and bells up and around.
All of this will make you, and your home very unattractive to these entities. Good luck! And remember the ritual to get rid of unwelcome, otherworldly guests is in Tough Magic for Rough Times.
